Are You the One?: Choosing a Mate

About This Movie

Are You the One?: Choosing a Mate is a curious 1967 film that navigates the complexities of young love and the societal expectations that come with it. Marilyn and Doug’s romance, sprinkled with moments of sincerity, unfolds against a backdrop of well-meaning friends like Michael and Shirley, who embody that 'happily ever after' vibe. The pacing gently mirrors the ebb and flow of real-life relationships, while the performances bring a certain warmth to the dialogue, despite some heavy-handed dialogue about love and commitment. There’s a palpable tension between their desires and the weight of their upbringing, which adds layers to their journey. It’s a film that lingers in your thoughts, asking questions rather than providing answers, which can feel refreshing.

This film is relatively obscure, with limited availability on home video formats, making it a bit of a treasure for collectors. Early VHS releases seem to be the most common, but good luck finding a decent copy; the scarcity only adds to its intrigue. There’s definitely a niche audience that appreciates these kinds of explorative romantic dramas, often overlooked in favor of flashier titles from the era.